人之患在乎好為人師。
我認為，人之患在乎講多過別人所問。
Sunday, May 11, 2025
20250226 決定
做決定係要用未來作為考慮點。好多人係做決定嘅時候都會衡量現時嘅狀況而作出一個決定。例如佢現在擁有嘅一切佢覺得都ok，因此佢就維持原狀。
但事實上世界係不停轉，人係不停向前，所以理性地做決定應該係以未來嘅狀況而作出決定。用inflation為例，你嘅錢今日夠洗唔等於喺未來夠洗因為係有inflation。
20250224 生命的軌跡
生命的軌跡。
後生時當我講生命的軌跡的時候我會聯想自己隨著一個軌跡係太空漫遊。突然間會有同另一個人嘅軌跡相遇相交，相遇一段時間之后亦會分開，我就用嚟解釋人嘅原來完去。
今時今日我講生命嘅軌跡用的方法譬如係唔同。我會議大海唯一個比喻，一班人都留咗喺一個水流入邊，隨著水流去漂浮，當然水流亦亦都有佢自己一定嘅軌跡同目的地。當有一個人有佢自己特別嘅需要嘅時候或者有佢自己想法嘅時候，佢就會離開呢個水流，又或者進入咗另一個水流。快如果冇乜特別想法嘅人，就繼續隨波逐流跟住個水流而去。當然其中亦都有啲人會加入反呢個水流，有人有出有入有出有入。
我地做人處事其實都差不多。一般都係跟著這個社會, 跟住個時代走。但突然間有自己嘅想法嘅時候可能我哋就會離開呢個社會同埋時代。舉一個例子我哋都係日出而作日入而息個個都係打工仔，但係弟子突然之間有1日我覺得想嗰一個綠色嘅環保日子，可能我就放棄哂一切我擁有嘅一切，而行入一個鄉下去開始耕田做一個農夫。
20250220 AI
when we use AI, it implies that the answer is not 100% true and being proved. But we still using AI everyday to make decision because we accept the decision in our life no need to be 100% correct even we can by spending more time and effort in it. We are giving up accuracy by convenience.
what will our life be if most of our decision is by guess.
20250122 short-sighted
human is short-sighted. We do a lot of short-term plans/measures which will bring permanent suffering in long-term.
20250119 Personality
1. personality
1.1 personality = 先天
1.2 personality = 後天
1.3 personality = 先天+ 後天
1.4 personality decides your life
1.5 personality test
1.1.1 what is my personality
1.1.2 what is my parent personalities
1.1.3 what will i be
1.1.4 what is the best match my personality
1.1.5 living inside the frame
1.1.6 will feel helpless in one's life
1.2.1 what make my personality (incidents)
1.2.2 what personality i want to be
1.2.3 what i want to be
1.2.4 what to change in order to match what i want
1.2.5 frame can be built and re-built
1.2.6 will create internal conflict with 1.3
1.2.7 facing time and resource restriction
1.3.1 what is my limitation to be what i want to be
1.3.2 what is my life floor and ceiling
1.3.3 practical in time-space limited environment
1.5.1 personality test tells you what you told it
20250110 公平?
呢個係一個有趣嘅故事
有一個農莊主人佢想請臨時工
係朝頭早有一個工人嚟應徵農莊主人叫佢即時開工
去到食中午飯之前又有一個工人嚟應徵農莊主人又叫佢即時開工
午飯過後又有一個工人離認證農莊主人又叫佢即時開工
去到黃昏嘅時候，收工喇，農莊主人向各人派咗一個銀幣作為當日嘅工資
最早開工嘅工人大叫唔公平，佢一早開工做足全日都係得一個銀幣而其他人只係做咗半天又有一個銀幣所以非常之唔公平
農莊主人答，你開工係基於一個契約，而我亦完成契約裏面嘅條款。係呢件事上面同公平有咩關係？
20241229 Not smarter
I am not smarter than you, I just older than you. I went through something that you do not. I know my mistake and how to improve it. I don't have the 2nd chance to face it again but I have a younger you.
If the world has not gone through a huge change, you will face the problem of mine when you reach my age.
20241203 淺草寺
今日坐在淺草寺，腦內就想到
1. 佛學講因果，佛都不能被免。
2. 要不跌入因果，最簡單就是不動，不動就是不生因，果報完就無因無果。
3. 所以就算被打被殺也不可還手，因為是在了因。
4. 但了因並不是只是一世。因地果還生，可能要很多世。
5. 但要保持多世不動，很不可能。
6. 心經講色即是空，空即是色。就是一層突破。因果是被不了，但自性如如，在因果中而不受因果所牽絆，什至善用因果。
20241018 Reason for Yes
you don't give a reason when you say Yes to a request. Then, why do you have to provide a reason when you say No?
To be fair, if somebody asks for a reason for a No, they have to give a reason for the Yes.
20241010 Margret Thatcher
our beliefs become our thoughts
our thoughts become our words
our words become our actions
our actions become our habits
20240923 What is immigrant
what is an immigrant?
An immigrant is a person who contributes to the national revenue without spending it.
Normal citizens spend national revenue when they are small such as on education, and they contribute national revenue when they start to work after school. But an immigrant is not.
From the perspective of a nation, a local newborn is an investment. The nation invests in them and expects in return when they join the labour force. However, the nation loses if the newborn leaves the country.
However, for an immigrant, the story is totally via verse.
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