20250119 Personality

 1. personality

1.1 personality = 先天

1.2 personality = 後天

1.3 personality = 先天+ 後天

1.4 personality decides your life

1.5 personality test

1.1.1 what is my personality

1.1.2 what is my parent personalities

1.1.3 what will i be

1.1.4 what is the best match my personality

1.1.5 living inside the frame

1.1.6 will feel helpless in one's life

1.2.1 what make my personality (incidents)

1.2.2 what personality i want to be

1.2.3 what i want to be

1.2.4 what to change in order to match what i want

1.2.5 frame can be built and re-built

1.2.6 will create internal conflict with 1.3

1.2.7 facing time and resource restriction

1.3.1 what is my limitation to be what i want to be

1.3.2 what is my life floor and ceiling

1.3.3 practical in time-space limited environment

1.5.1 personality test tells you what you told it

20250118 Every morning

 Every morning, we are watching sun rise or earth spin?

20250110 公平?

 呢個係一個有趣嘅故事

有一個農莊主人佢想請臨時工

係朝頭早有一個工人嚟應徵農莊主人叫佢即時開工

去到食中午飯之前又有一個工人嚟應徵農莊主人又叫佢即時開工

午飯過後又有一個工人離認證農莊主人又叫佢即時開工

去到黃昏嘅時候，收工喇，農莊主人向各人派咗一個銀幣作為當日嘅工資

最早開工嘅工人大叫唔公平，佢一早開工做足全日都係得一個銀幣而其他人只係做咗半天又有一個銀幣所以非常之唔公平

農莊主人答，你開工係基於一個契約，而我亦完成契約裏面嘅條款。係呢件事上面同公平有咩關係？

20241229 Not smarter

 I am not smarter than you, I just older than you. I went through something that you do not. I know my mistake and how to improve it. I don't have the 2nd chance to face it again but I have a younger you. 

If the world has not gone through a huge change, you will face the problem of mine when you reach my age.

20241203 淺草寺

 今日坐在淺草寺，腦內就想到

1. 佛學講因果，佛都不能被免。

2. 要不跌入因果，最簡單就是不動，不動就是不生因，果報完就無因無果。

3. 所以就算被打被殺也不可還手，因為是在了因。

4. 但了因並不是只是一世。因地果還生，可能要很多世。

5. 但要保持多世不動，很不可能。

6. 心經講色即是空，空即是色。就是一層突破。因果是被不了，但自性如如，在因果中而不受因果所牽絆，什至善用因果。

20241129 人民數量

 一個國家的經濟取決人民數量，沒有人那來的消費，沒有消費那來經濟。

人民第一是是有消費能力，有工有量是第一要素。又或者派福利。

20241126 年青

年青時就是希望改變别人，如家人，朋友，戀人。人大了就只會找意合的談談話。

20241119

 一個 open and 接納多元化的社會，最能體驗到人的品味&個人情操

20241106 平權

 死物沒有甚麼平等不平等的事情. 生物, 就人而言, 生而不平等是事實. 追求平等是不切實際. 要追求的是: 平權.

20241018 Reason for Yes

 you don't give a reason when you say Yes to a request. Then, why do you have to provide a reason when you say No?

To be fair, if somebody asks for a reason for a No, they have to give a reason for the Yes.

20241010 Margret Thatcher

 our beliefs become our thoughts

our thoughts become our words

our words become our actions

our actions become our habits

20240923 What is immigrant

 what is an immigrant?

An immigrant is a person who contributes to the national revenue without spending it.

Normal citizens spend national revenue when they are small such as on education, and they contribute national revenue when they start to work after school. But an immigrant is not.

From the perspective of a nation, a local newborn is an investment. The nation invests in them and expects in return when they join the labour force. However, the nation loses if the newborn leaves the country.

However, for an immigrant, the story is totally via verse.

20240912貨幣

 一個貨幣不可以隨便貶值, 因為貨幣眨值, 她的債券(尤其是國債)會即時同時眨值. 持有者就算嬴了利息也輸了幣值. 得不賞失. 中國面對的一個幣值的大問題 .

20240906 you are the traffic

 you are not stuck in traffic, you are the traffic.

20240902

 There is no use to counsel a person who is sleeping and dreaming sweetly. Maybe you need to slap them awake first.

20240901 心

 we don't know how we retrieve our memory, but when someone talks about a past event, we can recall it, the sound the picture, and the feeling as well. This is the use of the heart (心之用). 

From the use of the heart, we know the essence of the heart (心之本). However, we never know how the essence of the heart looks like. 

Remember, in ancient times, people don't know anything about the biology of the brain. They know there is a brain but how it works, and the function of different parts of the brain, they never know. The brain is like a black box, it cannot be described.

in Taoism, it mentions that the essence of Tao cannot be seen and heard, but we are so sure its present because we can see, and hear its use.

20240820 Why Japanese is so special

 I feel that is why Japanese is so special.

Japanese do as they are without caring about how others think, or how the world change.

they keep their customs as it is, they celebrate the ways they are.  At the same time, outsiders really like what they insist on their own ways of life.

20240819 無論你幾咁正確，沒必要證明别人是錯。

 無論你幾咁正確，沒必要證明别人是錯。

20240815 AI

 - we need social to cure loneliness, when too much social we need solitude.

- what if, we are brought up by AI.

- we don't need human social interaction anymore

- we have tailor-made interaction

- then, we don't know how to interact with other people

- we don't know how to handle other people's emotions, perspectives, thinking, etc.

- we don't need EQ anymore

- we are self-centered

- I think maybe we interact with other people through AI, AI will become a bridge between humans.

20240815 Work for?

 - I once heard that we work not for money/salary

- we work to accumulate our experience or sharpen our skills in one career/field

- once we become experts in the field, it is time to pick a company and job and salary

- So, we don't mind overtime and you don't mind salary, you don't mind working hard because these things are sharpening you to be a successful person in the future

- most people work for money/salary, and what about you?

- this perspective leads to another thing that most company/boss don't like

- where is the loyalty?

- btw, don't kidding. will the company be loyal to its hard-working staff?