青年人都有一果火紅的心，事事追求完美，因為他們眼界未開，見得世面少。
成年人都圓融滑頭，事事妥協，因為他們認清世態，見到世面。
所以成年人都喜歡向青年人講一個真實話：大了你就會明白。
縱使是真話，是否帶了點悲涼？
Friday, December 04, 2015
Tuesday, December 01, 2015
時間的謎思
事情的發展不是跟進時間，而是事件的次序。
一件工程的完成並不是跟隨時間而是一步步的事工。
一件工程不是三個月完成，而是完成事工一，二，三，四........直至最後一個事工。
就如讀書一樣，由一年級，二年級...小學...中學...大學...。如果你一年級的程度也沒有，硬要你去到讀二年級或更高也是浪費時間和精神。但事實上，誰可以肯定你一年內可以完成一年級的課程？有些人用了比一般人多的時間去讀小學，但一入大學就就可以用最短既時間完成博士課程。
時間運用於事情上只是一個估計約數而不是一個肯定數亦不可用來作控制因素。
一件工程的完成並不是跟隨時間而是一步步的事工。
一件工程不是三個月完成，而是完成事工一，二，三，四........直至最後一個事工。
就如讀書一樣，由一年級，二年級...小學...中學...大學...。如果你一年級的程度也沒有，硬要你去到讀二年級或更高也是浪費時間和精神。但事實上，誰可以肯定你一年內可以完成一年級的課程？有些人用了比一般人多的時間去讀小學，但一入大學就就可以用最短既時間完成博士課程。
時間運用於事情上只是一個估計約數而不是一個肯定數亦不可用來作控制因素。
Monday, November 30, 2015
50歲生日的啟悟
今天是五十歲生日，在車上聽著李怡講書評
其中一個故事的核心是：快樂是要問自己今天擁有了甚麼，而不是還想要甚麼。
是啊，事實上這五十多年來，我已經擁有了很多。除了物質的還有非物質的，當然以非物質的更為寶貴。
擁有的事情是不需要與別人比，自己數數就知道。我真的擁有了很多，很多。我應該快樂，現在的我要學懂去欣賞我的快樂，不要被快樂白白地被放在一邊，被遺忘掉。
其中一個故事的核心是：快樂是要問自己今天擁有了甚麼，而不是還想要甚麼。
是啊，事實上這五十多年來，我已經擁有了很多。除了物質的還有非物質的，當然以非物質的更為寶貴。
擁有的事情是不需要與別人比，自己數數就知道。我真的擁有了很多，很多。我應該快樂，現在的我要學懂去欣賞我的快樂，不要被快樂白白地被放在一邊，被遺忘掉。
天堂
人人都想上天堂，琴日就問咗個朋友（佢係教徒）係天堂有乜野做？
佢想咗一陣我就加口：咁應該好多人世間既野都做得，好似打機，講粗口啦...。
佢問當然唔可以啦。
咁積係可以做乜？其實有好多野亦都唔使做，好似搵食咁。
佢想多幾想就話，唱歌（聖詩），崇拜咁啦。
無哪？
都無乜特別野好做。
咁咪好悶？
唔悶家。
我話點會唔悶？傾偈都唔可以講衰野。
佢想咗一陣我就加口：咁應該好多人世間既野都做得，好似打機，講粗口啦...。
佢問當然唔可以啦。
咁積係可以做乜？其實有好多野亦都唔使做，好似搵食咁。
佢想多幾想就話，唱歌（聖詩），崇拜咁啦。
無哪？
都無乜特別野好做。
咁咪好悶？
唔悶家。
我話點會唔悶？傾偈都唔可以講衰野。
Monday, November 23, 2015
追求完美
人在追求完美當中虛耗了大部分。
追求
完美的制度
完美的環境
完美的國家
完美的家庭
完美的伴侶
完美的子女
完美的朋友
完美的工作
完美的學歷
完美的屋
完美的車
完美的..........
完美的一切，一切
這種追求看似合理，及令人覺得有理想。（女士們很喜歡有理想的男士啊！）
但事實上，追求完美的可能性及代價是多少？
在一個不完美的世界去追求完美是可能的嗎？在污水中找淨水是可能的嗎？我們活在人世間，並不是天堂。把人世界變成天堂，可能的嗎？在人類歷史中我們看到有完美的一刻嗎？
就當可以吧，代價呢？要用多少來換取＂完美＂或者貼近完美？
在人世間中要追求的並不是完美，而是學懂欣賞萬事萬物。
有人學懂萬物皆美，因此不需要追求美，因為美就在你面前，只是你看不看到美。
有人學懂世上沒有美與不美，再不分辨美與不美，跳出美與不美的兩極中。
還要談完美嗎？不要再費時啦。
追求
完美的制度
完美的環境
完美的國家
完美的家庭
完美的伴侶
完美的子女
完美的朋友
完美的工作
完美的學歷
完美的屋
完美的車
完美的..........
完美的一切，一切
這種追求看似合理，及令人覺得有理想。（女士們很喜歡有理想的男士啊！）
但事實上，追求完美的可能性及代價是多少？
在一個不完美的世界去追求完美是可能的嗎？在污水中找淨水是可能的嗎？我們活在人世間，並不是天堂。把人世界變成天堂，可能的嗎？在人類歷史中我們看到有完美的一刻嗎？
就當可以吧，代價呢？要用多少來換取＂完美＂或者貼近完美？
在人世間中要追求的並不是完美，而是學懂欣賞萬事萬物。
有人學懂萬物皆美，因此不需要追求美，因為美就在你面前，只是你看不看到美。
有人學懂世上沒有美與不美，再不分辨美與不美，跳出美與不美的兩極中。
還要談完美嗎？不要再費時啦。
Sunday, November 01, 2015
Dream(s)
Everyone have dreams, either talk about it (on lips only) or work on it.
What is your dreams?
Are they still on your lips or you already are working on it?
P.S. nothing in this world can be done without paying effort (big or small) for it.
What is your dreams?
Are they still on your lips or you already are working on it?
P.S. nothing in this world can be done without paying effort (big or small) for it.
Tuesday, October 27, 2015
Bully
I have tear in my eyes when I watch this short film
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/bullying-social-experiment-video-captures-response-of-passers-by-in-us-a6707401.html
This short film not only telling me human have hope, but also telling me the best way to handle bully: we use love to take care the being bullied but not bullying the bully. Let the bully knows what is love and there is love in our world.
Love is what this world need but not punishment
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/bullying-social-experiment-video-captures-response-of-passers-by-in-us-a6707401.html
This short film not only telling me human have hope, but also telling me the best way to handle bully: we use love to take care the being bullied but not bullying the bully. Let the bully knows what is love and there is love in our world.
Love is what this world need but not punishment
Monday, October 19, 2015
Friday, October 09, 2015
婦解對男人的變化
婦解，都唔知係幾時既事。總之，係我好細個既時候已經有，到現在繼續解緊，越來越解。
婦解，好似係令到女人有更多＂權力＂，更加＂自由＂，更＂平等＂，更多＂參與＂，更 ...........。
但係婦解對男人有乜影響呢？我就唔知有無人研究過。不過，最近，好多時都聽聞社會大眾批評而家Ｄ男人就點樣無用。好似比人周街打咁啦，又廢，學業成績又唔及女同學，又做宅男，工作表現唔及女同事，唔好講上進心，連自尊心都超低....。總之就不知所謂，一代不如一代咁啦。
查實，大家有無想過，廢男同婦解係有直接關係？
婦解，好似係令到女人有更多＂權力＂，更加＂自由＂，更＂平等＂，更多＂參與＂，更 ...........。
但係婦解對男人有乜影響呢？我就唔知有無人研究過。不過，最近，好多時都聽聞社會大眾批評而家Ｄ男人就點樣無用。好似比人周街打咁啦，又廢，學業成績又唔及女同學，又做宅男，工作表現唔及女同事，唔好講上進心，連自尊心都超低....。總之就不知所謂，一代不如一代咁啦。
查實，大家有無想過，廢男同婦解係有直接關係？
Friday, October 02, 2015
Are we playing a game?
We know what is online game.
if i told you that our real life was far more advance, we could enter a game to play in first person mode. And our life in this world was an online game, we entered the game as a child, when we died, then game over and we had to go back to our real life.
The reason why we played this game because we wanted to experience different life. We wanted to be a singer, a hero, a doctor, a ...., a .... etc. Or, we entered into the game because of someone; we wanted to be friend of somebody, to marry somebody, to love somebody, to become enemy of somebody etc.
Now, you know the fact, are you going to live the same as usual or another? What you are going to do more and do less?
if i told you that our real life was far more advance, we could enter a game to play in first person mode. And our life in this world was an online game, we entered the game as a child, when we died, then game over and we had to go back to our real life.
The reason why we played this game because we wanted to experience different life. We wanted to be a singer, a hero, a doctor, a ...., a .... etc. Or, we entered into the game because of someone; we wanted to be friend of somebody, to marry somebody, to love somebody, to become enemy of somebody etc.
Now, you know the fact, are you going to live the same as usual or another? What you are going to do more and do less?
Thursday, October 01, 2015
Right for information
We make decision base on the information in our brain.
Our experience, our perception are the products the information we have.
Think about that. When one day some one feeding selected information, or partially hiding information, or distorting information that we have every day. We can see how terrible our experience, perception and decision will be.
In an open society, people have the full rights to get the information they need, I mean the raw data, fact, etc. No hiding, no cheating, no distorting.
With full rights to access all of the information, then people can be deemed to have full responsibility to what they have done.
Our experience, our perception are the products the information we have.
Think about that. When one day some one feeding selected information, or partially hiding information, or distorting information that we have every day. We can see how terrible our experience, perception and decision will be.
In an open society, people have the full rights to get the information they need, I mean the raw data, fact, etc. No hiding, no cheating, no distorting.
With full rights to access all of the information, then people can be deemed to have full responsibility to what they have done.
Thursday, September 24, 2015
What is heaven looks like?
what is heaven look like?
who can tell? except those who believe in transmigration or people with super power which can travel between heaven and world.
from my own perspective, heaven is pure, is absolute, is "the best". In heaven, there is no error, mistake, or even wrongdoing. While world, we have right or wrong, good or bad, kind and evil etc.
In a pure form, we find no other alternative, because we are living in "the best" situation. No matter what we do, eating, walking, dressing, thinking, talking, and etc, we are in "the best" way, the absolute way to do it.
Since there is no alternation, we don't have to think, consider, or even make choice. We know what the should is, we act what we should be, there is no reason to have an alternation. And, everything is predictable, or we can say there is no other way to do one thing.
Heaven is pure, absolute form.
Yes, there is no choice.
Please enjoy a world with a lot of choices and the rights to make choices.
who can tell? except those who believe in transmigration or people with super power which can travel between heaven and world.
from my own perspective, heaven is pure, is absolute, is "the best". In heaven, there is no error, mistake, or even wrongdoing. While world, we have right or wrong, good or bad, kind and evil etc.
In a pure form, we find no other alternative, because we are living in "the best" situation. No matter what we do, eating, walking, dressing, thinking, talking, and etc, we are in "the best" way, the absolute way to do it.
Since there is no alternation, we don't have to think, consider, or even make choice. We know what the should is, we act what we should be, there is no reason to have an alternation. And, everything is predictable, or we can say there is no other way to do one thing.
Heaven is pure, absolute form.
Yes, there is no choice.
Please enjoy a world with a lot of choices and the rights to make choices.
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
Heaven
I had a dream last night, it was about my life in heaven. I remember I entered into a room and was having meal with other people.
But, I don't like heaven. Everything is governed by rules and regulations. No exception. No alternation. No option. And no surprise. I found people not even chat because there is no topic for chatting.
People in heaven like robot, doing the same things, reaction is also the same.
And then, I walk out of the room looking at the blue sky and yelled. It is so good to be in Earth !! We have choice !!
But, I don't like heaven. Everything is governed by rules and regulations. No exception. No alternation. No option. And no surprise. I found people not even chat because there is no topic for chatting.
People in heaven like robot, doing the same things, reaction is also the same.
And then, I walk out of the room looking at the blue sky and yelled. It is so good to be in Earth !! We have choice !!
Sunday, September 20, 2015
education
the ultimate goal of education is to open up one's mind.
however, nowadays education is being used to leading people to some specific designed thinking and conclusion.
education should teaches us to find out what is it, what is right, and what is wrong. But, we are taught what is it, what is right, and what is wrong.
however, nowadays education is being used to leading people to some specific designed thinking and conclusion.
education should teaches us to find out what is it, what is right, and what is wrong. But, we are taught what is it, what is right, and what is wrong.
Saturday, September 12, 2015
Can you earn from real estate?
If you own only "1 house", I don't think you can earn from real estate.
Lets say you buy a new house with 100k. After 5 years the price goes to 300k. For sure you are very happy about it.
How can you earn money? for sure sell your house for 300k and earn 200k. Now you have 300k on hand but where do you live? for sure you have to buy a house. So, you go back to the market and look for a house. If you want a house which is similar as your old one (you don't want to downgrade your living standard, right?) Guess how much the new house will cost you? for sure 300k.
So, how much you earn from real estate? negative. Beside, you have to pay all the fee in both selling and buying transactions. At last, you got a lost.
YOU CAN EARN FROM REAL ESTATE STARTING FROM YOU HAVE 2nd HOUSE.
Lets say you buy a new house with 100k. After 5 years the price goes to 300k. For sure you are very happy about it.
How can you earn money? for sure sell your house for 300k and earn 200k. Now you have 300k on hand but where do you live? for sure you have to buy a house. So, you go back to the market and look for a house. If you want a house which is similar as your old one (you don't want to downgrade your living standard, right?) Guess how much the new house will cost you? for sure 300k.
So, how much you earn from real estate? negative. Beside, you have to pay all the fee in both selling and buying transactions. At last, you got a lost.
YOU CAN EARN FROM REAL ESTATE STARTING FROM YOU HAVE 2nd HOUSE.
Friday, September 11, 2015
The world is not beautiful
for those who like taking pictures/photos knows that the world is not that beautiful as we seen in photo or in photography shows.
The reason why photos in photography show is because the photographer capture the most beautiful part in the original scene. In a whole, the scene may not be beautiful or even ugly but the photographer will capture the best part of it. Sometimes, editing also plays a key role in finishing a beautiful photos. We have heard that a fat woman become thin after editing, grey sky become blue etc etc.
Lets show an example, when taking human face, we would take the most beautiful part and avoid the most ugly part. We may have ugly mouth, nose, ears, but we have a pair of beautiful eyes. For a smart photographer, they will take picture on the eyes instead of other parts of the face.
The world is not beautiful. It is true our world is not heaven but not hell. So, it has beautiful and ugly parts. If you really want to enjoy your life, focus on beautiful part and avoid ugly part.
However, when you are enjoying the beautiful things, please don't forget that there is also an ugly things. If possible, fix it.
The reason why photos in photography show is because the photographer capture the most beautiful part in the original scene. In a whole, the scene may not be beautiful or even ugly but the photographer will capture the best part of it. Sometimes, editing also plays a key role in finishing a beautiful photos. We have heard that a fat woman become thin after editing, grey sky become blue etc etc.
Lets show an example, when taking human face, we would take the most beautiful part and avoid the most ugly part. We may have ugly mouth, nose, ears, but we have a pair of beautiful eyes. For a smart photographer, they will take picture on the eyes instead of other parts of the face.
The world is not beautiful. It is true our world is not heaven but not hell. So, it has beautiful and ugly parts. If you really want to enjoy your life, focus on beautiful part and avoid ugly part.
However, when you are enjoying the beautiful things, please don't forget that there is also an ugly things. If possible, fix it.
Boss's decision
The decision of your boss is based on what and how information you feed to them. Basically, your boss is keep sucking information and use them to make decision. (I donno whether they digest the information or not)
Do they go to see what is going on themselves? Yes, maybe, but not always or often. That's why they need you to feed them information.
I am not telling you to hide information or lie to your boss, and I just remind you that you should not miss reporting "some important information" to them.
Lets use an example.
In a meeting, all staffs look sad because of the information of boss asks for. The boss requests them to look for how the opponent reach goal A, B, and C..... but they cannot. At last, staffs collect the data and have a result.
One of the staff adds a piece of information in the report is: how much the opponent have spent in achieving goal A, B, and C...
Another staff adds if we cannot achieving goal A, B, and C... how much the company will suffer.
Do they go to see what is going on themselves? Yes, maybe, but not always or often. That's why they need you to feed them information.
I am not telling you to hide information or lie to your boss, and I just remind you that you should not miss reporting "some important information" to them.
Lets use an example.
In a meeting, all staffs look sad because of the information of boss asks for. The boss requests them to look for how the opponent reach goal A, B, and C..... but they cannot. At last, staffs collect the data and have a result.
One of the staff adds a piece of information in the report is: how much the opponent have spent in achieving goal A, B, and C...
Another staff adds if we cannot achieving goal A, B, and C... how much the company will suffer.
Wednesday, September 09, 2015
how much it is being loved
No matter how much you love your house, it is true that the new owner will renovate it.
No matter how much you love something, it doesn't mean that the other will love it as you do.
Live with your own style but don't expect the others like it.
Be yourself is fine and great. As, there are many many OTHERS, you can't please them all and no need to please them all. Because they won't say a word of thank to you even you try to please them.
No matter how much you love something, it doesn't mean that the other will love it as you do.
Live with your own style but don't expect the others like it.
Be yourself is fine and great. As, there are many many OTHERS, you can't please them all and no need to please them all. Because they won't say a word of thank to you even you try to please them.
Tuesday, September 08, 2015
力不到不為財
如果地下有張一百蚊紙, 你想要的話都要彎低身先攞到.
照呢一個道理, 如果你存錢入銀行跟住乜都唔做, 你估你會唔會發達? 當然你好清楚輸通漲都輸死你.
同一個道理, 如果你D錢買晒股票跟手乜都唔理你估你會唔會變成D有錢佬? 結果都係唔會.
人家有錢因為佢地會見底入見高買, 錢先會返幾返, 你淨係買完就唔理, 比你發達都唔公平.
其實個道理就她似買屋, 今日你買咗間屋, 你住係度唔理佢, 無錯, 你間屋既屋價係不停向上升. 但係你唔好唔得, 其他屋都係一路升. 咁積係數字上係升咗, 但在市場上你間屋係無升到. 要係屋度發達, 都係要屋價高就買, 屋價底就入. 當然你會話個市你估唔到. 但係由旺區搬去有 potential 既新區你識既. 好多人買咗新區守幾年就發咗就係咁解. 又或者買間舊屋返新就可以賣高價搵錢.
講來講去都係一個道理, 錢放係度唔理係唔會變多D. 力不到不為財.
有時真係好唔明自己, 成幾十歲人先識得呢個道理.
照呢一個道理, 如果你存錢入銀行跟住乜都唔做, 你估你會唔會發達? 當然你好清楚輸通漲都輸死你.
同一個道理, 如果你D錢買晒股票跟手乜都唔理你估你會唔會變成D有錢佬? 結果都係唔會.
人家有錢因為佢地會見底入見高買, 錢先會返幾返, 你淨係買完就唔理, 比你發達都唔公平.
其實個道理就她似買屋, 今日你買咗間屋, 你住係度唔理佢, 無錯, 你間屋既屋價係不停向上升. 但係你唔好唔得, 其他屋都係一路升. 咁積係數字上係升咗, 但在市場上你間屋係無升到. 要係屋度發達, 都係要屋價高就買, 屋價底就入. 當然你會話個市你估唔到. 但係由旺區搬去有 potential 既新區你識既. 好多人買咗新區守幾年就發咗就係咁解. 又或者買間舊屋返新就可以賣高價搵錢.
講來講去都係一個道理, 錢放係度唔理係唔會變多D. 力不到不為財.
有時真係好唔明自己, 成幾十歲人先識得呢個道理.
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