古時修道有一句名言：大隱隱於市
指出很多修行高的人並不生活在深山之中。反之，他們活在繁華鬧市之中。我們想找高人並不一定到深山之中搜尋，到鬧市之中亦可。
市中的是大隱，指修為已經很高，可以講比在深山中修行的更高。何解？我相信不是因為在鬧市中吸引多，容易失手。說實的，都已經有一定的修維，那些所謂聲色犬馬的吸引對修道者並不吸引。還受影響的通常是初哥。
修道者去到某個階段就開始有＂潔癖＂，對人世間的一切都不想涉及。所以，他們都喜歡跑到深山裡去。在鬧市中，他們的潔癖使他們對身邊一切都看不順眼，容易敗壞修行。能於活在那些看不順眼的也可以心平的，面對著種種不公的發生在自己身上的而可以心平者，實在不易。
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Wednesday, July 15, 2015
Thursday, July 09, 2015
佛教道教
道教，是中國的原始宗教。在中國有很大的支持。主要是清淨無為。
佛教，是由西方（印度）傳入中國亦大行其道。主要是四大皆空。
至於回教，基督宗教在中國都有信徒，但遠遠不及道教與佛教之多。
如果我們相信一個宗教能得到廣泛支持是因為能指到當地人民的心靈問題深深處。
那麼，中國人最大的問題就是自私，和貪。自我比一切為大。
講博愛的基督宗教就指出西方人的冷漠。事事追求一個制度，用制度去管理人與人之間的事情，把人情人性都去掉。
佛教，是由西方（印度）傳入中國亦大行其道。主要是四大皆空。
至於回教，基督宗教在中國都有信徒，但遠遠不及道教與佛教之多。
如果我們相信一個宗教能得到廣泛支持是因為能指到當地人民的心靈問題深深處。
那麼，中國人最大的問題就是自私，和貪。自我比一切為大。
講博愛的基督宗教就指出西方人的冷漠。事事追求一個制度，用制度去管理人與人之間的事情，把人情人性都去掉。
Monday, July 06, 2015
上天堂
上天堂之前真係要做好多好多野。最低限度要清晒Ｄ垃圾。
近來要搬屋，我就好明白呢個道理。
BTW，其實唔係好貼題。因為上天堂係應該對人世間既野乜都唔理，拍拍羅友就上路。所以，搬屋呢家野，其實係由一個地獄去到另一個地獄而已。
我車！
近來要搬屋，我就好明白呢個道理。
BTW，其實唔係好貼題。因為上天堂係應該對人世間既野乜都唔理，拍拍羅友就上路。所以，搬屋呢家野，其實係由一個地獄去到另一個地獄而已。
我車！
Tuesday, June 30, 2015
Privacy Policy
What is Privacy Policy?
Privacy Policy is to protect someone you don't want them to read or even you don't know they are reading your information has the rights to read it.
Privacy Policy is also to make sure someone you want them to read your information do not have the rights to read it.
Privacy Policy is to protect someone you don't want them to read or even you don't know they are reading your information has the rights to read it.
Privacy Policy is also to make sure someone you want them to read your information do not have the rights to read it.
Saturday, June 27, 2015
兩條公式 一個答案
草根：住草根的地方，食草根的食物，玩草根的娛樂，穿草根的衣服，結交草根朋友，獲得的是快樂。
上層：住上層的地方，食上層的食物，玩上層的娛樂，穿上層的衣服，結交上層朋友，獲得的是快樂。
衣食住行，是有分草根和上層，但快樂，沒有分草根與上層。草根階層獲得的快樂與上層階層所獲得的快樂是沒有兩樣。
兩條不同的公式，結局是一樣的。
上層：住上層的地方，食上層的食物，玩上層的娛樂，穿上層的衣服，結交上層朋友，獲得的是快樂。
衣食住行，是有分草根和上層，但快樂，沒有分草根與上層。草根階層獲得的快樂與上層階層所獲得的快樂是沒有兩樣。
兩條不同的公式，結局是一樣的。
為何不可食狗？
中國狗肉節又到，又引起國際罵聲四起。狗販的回應是，為何可以食豬，食牛，食羊，食一切動物就偏偏不可食狗？
對於素食的我，這絕對不是一個難答的問題。但對於食肉人士，無論你如果回答，都是牽強。
眾生平等。狗與其他動物同人類無異，對於有高道德水平的人類，本來動物就不是人類既食物。若人真的要食肉，什麼肉又有什麼分別？為何只有狗不可食之理？
要指出狗不可用來吃，只可從愛出發。
素食者不食肉，就是大愛，愛眾生，愛平等。因此，不是不能食肉，而是食不下。食肉的人，沒有大愛。只食某肉而不食某某食肉並不是愛而只是偏食，愛狗而不食極其量只是小愛或偏愛。偏愛者只是個人喜嗜。既然是個人喜嗜，你不食是你自己既事，管不了他人，亦無資格說他人。
不食狗的原因不是我們愛狗而不食。反之，不食狗的原因是因為狗愛我們。吃下愛你的動物，這就是問題。無論你是素食者，肉食者，傷害愛你的生命就是錯，就是無良心。以怨報德，於心何忍？
萬物有情，豈只是狗？養小雞的小孩不吃成長後的小雞。與小豬相處一段時間的小子，不肯食其肉。小孩也懂相愛。要學懂愛，學懂牠們對你的愛。什麼可食，什麼不可食，在你心中就一清二楚。
對於素食的我，這絕對不是一個難答的問題。但對於食肉人士，無論你如果回答，都是牽強。
眾生平等。狗與其他動物同人類無異，對於有高道德水平的人類，本來動物就不是人類既食物。若人真的要食肉，什麼肉又有什麼分別？為何只有狗不可食之理？
要指出狗不可用來吃，只可從愛出發。
素食者不食肉，就是大愛，愛眾生，愛平等。因此，不是不能食肉，而是食不下。食肉的人，沒有大愛。只食某肉而不食某某食肉並不是愛而只是偏食，愛狗而不食極其量只是小愛或偏愛。偏愛者只是個人喜嗜。既然是個人喜嗜，你不食是你自己既事，管不了他人，亦無資格說他人。
不食狗的原因不是我們愛狗而不食。反之，不食狗的原因是因為狗愛我們。吃下愛你的動物，這就是問題。無論你是素食者，肉食者，傷害愛你的生命就是錯，就是無良心。以怨報德，於心何忍？
萬物有情，豈只是狗？養小雞的小孩不吃成長後的小雞。與小豬相處一段時間的小子，不肯食其肉。小孩也懂相愛。要學懂愛，學懂牠們對你的愛。什麼可食，什麼不可食，在你心中就一清二楚。
Friday, June 26, 2015
Wednesday, June 24, 2015
偏執
有些人，好似我咁，死都要維護所謂合理既事。但當然所謂合理就係合我自己個理。
我呢種人，最大既特色就係死都要講最後一句。好似講咗最後一句就係 conclude 咗個結論，即係章顯咗個真理咁。係有少少低能，但性格既野係好難改。
要我唔講最後一句係無乜可能，要幫自己改，為有最後一句照講，不過只可以講呢一句話，其他既說話唔可以講。講邊一句話呢？
就係：你鍾意啦。
我呢種人，最大既特色就係死都要講最後一句。好似講咗最後一句就係 conclude 咗個結論，即係章顯咗個真理咁。係有少少低能，但性格既野係好難改。
要我唔講最後一句係無乜可能，要幫自己改，為有最後一句照講，不過只可以講呢一句話，其他既說話唔可以講。講邊一句話呢？
就係：你鍾意啦。
Thursday, May 28, 2015
problem and soluation
in dark night we see stars; in sunny day we see shadow.
when there is despair there is hope.
happiness comes with sadness.
problem and solution come together, this is now the nature works.
in Chinese Taoism:
無極生太極
太極生兩儀
兩儀是一齊來的，一齊存在，並無先後
if you only see problem, i can tell, you just miss the already there solution
Tuesday, May 26, 2015
Monday, May 11, 2015
Assistive Device
Assistive Device 最大的功用就是使用者（傷殘人士）back to normal。透過工具使修殘人士如正常人般生活。若你想過正常人生活就使用工具啦，好似眼鏡，助聽器，輪椅等等。
重點係 back to normal。normal 既定義係一般人既 normal，即一般人或社會大眾既標準。
我以前講過一個三手外星人既故事（忘了的話請搵舊 post）。主線都係講 disable，但方向係講 how we set the standard, how we set the environment and what is "normal"?
同是講 disable 但方向就絕不相同。我自己覺得很有思考空間。
重點係 back to normal。normal 既定義係一般人既 normal，即一般人或社會大眾既標準。
我以前講過一個三手外星人既故事（忘了的話請搵舊 post）。主線都係講 disable，但方向係講 how we set the standard, how we set the environment and what is "normal"?
同是講 disable 但方向就絕不相同。我自己覺得很有思考空間。
Sunday, May 10, 2015
奇妙的生命
簡單來說
動物吸取氧氣呼出二氧化碳，植物吸取二氧化碳呼出氧氣。
動物吃植物排糞便成長，植物吸收動物糞便而成長。
簡單而言
每一刻，生物（包括所有生物，動物，植物等等）不停把化學原素轉化。假定全地球有100個氧氣原子，100個碳原子。生物們不停把這些氧原子及碳原子轉化（O2 to CO2 to O2）。但氧及碳原子的數量並沒有增加或減少，除非天外飛來殞石才可增加原素數目，例如外太空飛來一粒水殞石，那麼地球就多了氧及氫原素，因為水是H2O。
生命就是那麼神奇，在沒有增加或消耗地球的一點原素而孕育了這麼多不同的生命。
動物吸取氧氣呼出二氧化碳，植物吸取二氧化碳呼出氧氣。
動物吃植物排糞便成長，植物吸收動物糞便而成長。
簡單而言
每一刻，生物（包括所有生物，動物，植物等等）不停把化學原素轉化。假定全地球有100個氧氣原子，100個碳原子。生物們不停把這些氧原子及碳原子轉化（O2 to CO2 to O2）。但氧及碳原子的數量並沒有增加或減少，除非天外飛來殞石才可增加原素數目，例如外太空飛來一粒水殞石，那麼地球就多了氧及氫原素，因為水是H2O。
生命就是那麼神奇，在沒有增加或消耗地球的一點原素而孕育了這麼多不同的生命。
大媽經濟學
很早前，聽過一個說法。在未來中國經濟模式將會取締西方經濟模式。
當時，我是摸不著頭腦，甚麼西方經濟模式？甚麼中國經濟模式？
在我腦中，經濟就只一條數，賺最多的錢。有錢搵就去，無錢搵就縮。
近來聽過大媽投資策略，我就開始明白一二。
買股票，當然睇公司實力，未來計劃，潛力，風險等等。對於優質股，價低入價高放，即賺大錢。
大媽呢？當然睇大媽喜歡不喜歡你。喜歡你，入你一億半億比你發展。要多一些？搵班鄉里夾幾百至千零多億比你發展。就算你間公司幾豬，有了幾百至千億比你發展，在市場上突然一鳴驚人，總會有出名的時候，到時人人追捧，唔發到幾難。
大媽睇關係，用錢玩死你，真係做到不被錢牽住走。這種睇關係睇心情的經濟模式，西方人真是不知如果對應。 最近，香港金市，股市不就是比大媽們死？要你邊一隻升，它不能不升。大媽放手的話，你不能不死。
嘿！
當時，我是摸不著頭腦，甚麼西方經濟模式？甚麼中國經濟模式？
在我腦中，經濟就只一條數，賺最多的錢。有錢搵就去，無錢搵就縮。
近來聽過大媽投資策略，我就開始明白一二。
買股票，當然睇公司實力，未來計劃，潛力，風險等等。對於優質股，價低入價高放，即賺大錢。
大媽呢？當然睇大媽喜歡不喜歡你。喜歡你，入你一億半億比你發展。要多一些？搵班鄉里夾幾百至千零多億比你發展。就算你間公司幾豬，有了幾百至千億比你發展，在市場上突然一鳴驚人，總會有出名的時候，到時人人追捧，唔發到幾難。
大媽睇關係，用錢玩死你，真係做到不被錢牽住走。這種睇關係睇心情的經濟模式，西方人真是不知如果對應。 最近，香港金市，股市不就是比大媽們死？要你邊一隻升，它不能不升。大媽放手的話，你不能不死。
嘿！
Friday, May 08, 2015
Happy Mothers' Day
A: send you a meaningful message
B: OK
A:
B: But not fully apply to my situation 😜
A: It doesn't fully apply to any of us. But it acknowledges the hard work of a wife and mother. So when you also work on top of this role, you deserve a bigger applaud!
B: Yes, you are right. What if
When the husband do all the driving
When the husband do laundry
When the husband vacuums the floor
When the husband do gardening
When the husband wakes his wife up
When the husband prepares his own breakfast
When the husband shops foods together
When the husband pays all the bills
When the husband drives to the family doctor no matter who get sick
I think you have to give "the husband" extra applaud. 😜
A: I know... It's Mother's Day ah ma!
B: I have no problem of mother's day but just have concern on wife's day.
B: I want to share a story too
A: What is it?
B: 我出世時我老媽子無問過我。
我上邊一間幼稚園我老媽子無問過我。
我上邊一間小學中學我老媽子無問過我。
大學她不懂，但就不停叫我做醫生或者律師。
我小時候參加的課外活動我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候我所有衣着我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候絕大部分我用既物品我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候去街的目的地我老媽子無問過我。
......
大咗？
大咗我老媽子想盡辦法干涉我。
真係用盡所有方法包括非法手段，用金錢同情感方法去控制我。
....
結果我離開了這個家，
老媽子還是想我住近她一點。美其名照顧我飲食，實質係人肉監示。
結婚後要管的更加多，包括我老婆同的下一代。
.....
結論呢？
結論係：我愛你老媽子
A: :|
B: OK
A:
My Wife DOES NOT WORK !!!
Conversation between a Husband (H) and a Psychologist (P):
🔸P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy?
🔹H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.
🔸P : Your Wife ?
🔹H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.
🔸P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?
🔹H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.
🔸P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast?
🔹H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.
🔸P : How do your kids go to school?
🔹H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work.
🔸P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do?
🔹H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.
🔸P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
🔹H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.
🔹H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.
🔸P : What does your wife do then?
🔹H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.
💯✔ Whom do you think works more, from the story above???
🔱 The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!
🎋 Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!
💝 Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles.
🎏All about a WOMAN ......
💛 When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind.
💙 When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted.
💜 When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock.
💚 Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted...
↪ Forward to every woman to make her smile and to every man to make him realize a woman's worth......!!!
❤💚💜💙💛💖
A heart touching message...... by a woman......"
Some one asked her......
Are you a working woman or a housewife ??
She replied : Yes I am a full time working housewife.
I work 24 hours a day.....
I'm a "mum",
I'm a wife,
I'm a daughter,
I'm a daughter-in-law.....
I'm an Alarm clock,
I'm a Cook,
I'm a Maid,
I'm a Teacher,
I'm a waiter,
I'm a nanny,
I'm a nurse,
I'm a handyman,
I'm a Security officer,
I'm a Counsellor,
I'm a comforter,
I don't get holidays,
I don't get sick leave,
I don't get day off......
I work through day and night.....
I'm on call......
all hours and get paid with a
sentence.....
"what do you do all day"
★ [ DON'T FORGET TO SHARE ] 👏👏👏👏👏
Dedicated to all women😘😊
👌🍃Woman has the most unique character like salt
Her presence is never remembered but Her absence makes all the things tasteless !!
🐾👍
Pass it to all the lovely ladies.....
Happy Mother's Day !
Thank you!
A: It doesn't fully apply to any of us. But it acknowledges the hard work of a wife and mother. So when you also work on top of this role, you deserve a bigger applaud!
B: Yes, you are right. What if
When the husband do all the driving
When the husband do laundry
When the husband vacuums the floor
When the husband do gardening
When the husband wakes his wife up
When the husband prepares his own breakfast
When the husband shops foods together
When the husband pays all the bills
When the husband drives to the family doctor no matter who get sick
I think you have to give "the husband" extra applaud. 😜
A: I know... It's Mother's Day ah ma!
B: I have no problem of mother's day but just have concern on wife's day.
B: I want to share a story too
A: What is it?
B: 我出世時我老媽子無問過我。
我上邊一間幼稚園我老媽子無問過我。
我上邊一間小學中學我老媽子無問過我。
大學她不懂，但就不停叫我做醫生或者律師。
我小時候參加的課外活動我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候我所有衣着我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候絕大部分我用既物品我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候去街的目的地我老媽子無問過我。
......
大咗？
大咗我老媽子想盡辦法干涉我。
真係用盡所有方法包括非法手段，用金錢同情感方法去控制我。
....
結果我離開了這個家，
老媽子還是想我住近她一點。美其名照顧我飲食，實質係人肉監示。
結婚後要管的更加多，包括我老婆同的下一代。
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結論呢？
結論係：我愛你老媽子
A: :|
Wednesday, May 06, 2015
Believe
It is meaningless or waste of time to discuss about belief (with other people).
You can listen or neglect but not discuss.
BTW, do you know how much we talk in a day is base on belief but not fact? I think I have to learn to shut up !
You can listen or neglect but not discuss.
BTW, do you know how much we talk in a day is base on belief but not fact? I think I have to learn to shut up !
Learn from a Palliative Presentation
1. there is no such thing as : too old is a reason to die. it is not a good comforting speaking for people with a dying loved one. We die because our body/organ no longer can support us for survival.
2. a private funeral or without funeral is stopping people who is not the family member to mourn their grievance. When someone died, not only the family feel lost, but also friends, colleague, or someone who knows; we never know there will be someone very important to the deceased one exist.
3. grievance is something relate to loss. It is not only applied in loss of life, it also applied on every losses. For people with dementia, they are also feeling grief because of losing memory, self-image, identity, reasoning, speech and etc.
2. a private funeral or without funeral is stopping people who is not the family member to mourn their grievance. When someone died, not only the family feel lost, but also friends, colleague, or someone who knows; we never know there will be someone very important to the deceased one exist.
3. grievance is something relate to loss. It is not only applied in loss of life, it also applied on every losses. For people with dementia, they are also feeling grief because of losing memory, self-image, identity, reasoning, speech and etc.
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