how much it is being loved

No matter how much you love your house, it is true that the new owner will renovate it.

No matter how much you love something, it doesn't mean that the other will love it as you do.

Live with your own style but don't expect the others like it.

Be yourself is fine and great. As, there are many many OTHERS, you can't please them all and no need to please them all. Because they won't say a word of thank to you even you try to please them.