If you believe in God, why can't you believe in magic, flying fire dragon, elf, Santa .... etc etc.
If you haven't argued with people believing in God, please don't laughing at people believe in magic, dragon ..... etc etc
If you respect people believing in God, please also respect people believe in magic .... etc etc
If you haven't proved God doesn't exist, please don't proved magic .... etc etc don't exist.
P.S. do you believe in God?
There is no such thing as Truth but Perspective (personal or communal). without truth, there will be no right or wrong.
Using "perspective" in your daily life makes your life much easier, get along with others much easier
P.S.
strictly speaking, everything that comes from your brain is the product of perspective
it is rather difficult to prove someone's perspective is wrong even if you find them have internal conflict
there are two people in front of you who are going to be trained
one of them is with heart but no skill and knowledge
one of them is having skill and knowledge but without heart
if you are going to train only 1 of them, who are you going to pick for training?
P.S. I will pick the one with heart because I am not confident enough to train somebody to become full of heart.
MAJORITY
mainstream
integration
majority
adjust
adopt
MINORITY
fairness
respect
discrimination
culture
understand
之前講過後真相。今日再講另一個角度。
當面對面對住一個人，你是否就是看到了那個人真相？
當然不是
一。你只見到那個人在特定時空的的特定部份，這顯然不是那個人的真相。今天的我與昨日的我絕對不會一樣。
二。你看到的只是你想看的那部份而並不是全部。舉例而言，當你看戲，你看到奸角，你自然覺得他／她不順眼，任何事都是錯的，就算是做好事都是別有用心的。但當你看到好心地的角色，就算是做了錯事都是無心之失，環境所迫等等。
人，是否真的可以看到真相？
縱使你對著鏡子，你是否可以看到真正的你自己？主線都不是你如何面對你自己而是了解你自己。
要維繫一段關係，無論是夫妻，朋友，有來有往是一個非常重要的原素。單方面的輸出或是接收是不能長久。
舉一個例子，朋友之間互相幫助是很自然的，朋友A"每次"見朋友B只會要求朋友B幫助，很快，朋友B便會疏遠A了，單向搵着數，係人都怕左你。但反之，若朋友A有時見面不是要求幫助而是帶給B快樂，那麼關係就可維持較長。
有一個重點要記：維繫，沒有關係不需要維繫，要維繫是要花點功夫的。
you know your real response only when you stay in the specific situation but not in your own thought.
yes, you can think over and over again, but it would never be your real response.
if you want to know who you are, walk into it but not think about it.
