係街見到面

還記得以前，當大家係街見到朋友，傾咗幾句後要走時，通常都會講：下次約出來飲茶再傾過。

而家？而家當大家係街見到朋友傾完後就通常會講，電話／手機聯絡。

睇來，大家都唔想做酒肉朋友。

人不知而不慍，不亦君子乎

論語這一句：人不知而不慍，不亦君子乎。其實我唔係好明。比起學而時習之，同有朋自遠方來，呢句難明。

但係今日駕車，我有點體味。

交通規則，事實上係不停轉變。可能因為道路環境。可能因為汽車發展。可能因為研究結果等。

如果你有興趣，最新既交通規則及其轉變係互聯網可以一覽無遺。但事實上，大部分人係唔理最新發展，只會源用自學車教車師父教的一套，可能已經不合時而。但當然佢地會覺得自己係岩晒，因為係師父教落。

對住呢類人，你都幾激氣，明明錯仲以為岩，仲而話你錯。

佢明明唔知新發展，仲要聲大夾惡。比著你嬲唔嬲？？

人不知而不慍，真係君子。論語，真係唔講得笑。

Snow

Snow, is an very special thing.


No matter how dirty and messy the land, when snow comes, a thick snow can cover everything with the same pure white color. It makes everything the same, no difference, no ranking, no characteristics, NO SELF. Somehow, I think snow is the substance/element to purify the world, it makes the whole world EQUAL. That's why people will imagine everything in heaven is in color white, white building, white clothes, white ground, surrounding by white cloud.


Yes, equal is best to use pure white to present.


Nevertheless, when you stay a long time in snow covered world, a long time. One day when some of the snow melt away you find different colour of rock, black, grey, white, brown. You also find different colour of grass, green, yellow, brown. Also different shape of everything, you will find that our world is full of variety, everything is unique and special. And we find the world is not that "boring". Isn't it amazing!!!???


People who leave heaven must have a reason, it maybe one of them.

the difference between parent and teacher

what is the difference between parent and teacher?

for parent, they tell kid "no to do something"
for teacher, they teach kid new behaviour to replace old behaviour

when I was small, I always think that my teacher is far more smarter than my parent. Today, I know it is not true that my parent is stupid. The reason is my parent don't know to use introducing-new-behaviour model. So, I felt that teacher are resourceful but not parent.

What is OLD?

There is no such thing called OLD
There is only loss of specific ability/abilities.

施恩莫望報，望報莫施恩

常言道：施恩莫望報，望報莫施恩。

這句說話並不是什麼勸世文。說話背後的重點在於，施恩前要想清楚。

不是勸世是因為，不施恩沒有什麼不對。人，沒有必然一定要向別人施恩。當然，施恩是美德，但沒有美德並不是錯。

但施恩並沒有必然獲得回報。這是事實。如果對這個事實不了解而有幻想，那麼，你可能一世都會因為得不到回報而很痛苦。

前塵往事之好mean既加拿大人

係好耐好耐以前，有廿幾年，當時剛剛出來做野。
有個老板，佢係加拿大華僑。份人無乜點，好無所謂，真係好加拿大人。

有日，我同佢講我要去饑饉三十，搵佢捐錢。佢一反常態，一毫子都唔捐。我問佢點解。佢話，佢好樂意捐錢幫人。但係埃塞俄比亞，食自己啦。

佢接住講，佢捐錢比呢個國家都捐咗好多年，但係國家就一D都無改善。現在仲要捐錢比佢哋？食蕉啦。

我當年唔係好明佢仲乜咁火，現在的我，我明。捐錢不是一個問題，問題係D錢不明不白地消失了。

記得係一會場合，有幸見到埃塞俄比亞既首都（相），我完全唔相信相中既地方係埃塞俄比亞既地方。一個摩登大城市，繁華，人民衣著光鮮。同宣明會比我睇既窮鄉僻壤完全係兩個世界。跟住有人同我講，埃塞俄比亞一D都唔窮，只不過貧富懸殊問題嚴重。加上政府將外國捐款都用得不明不白。

跟住既野，你有留意時事都知跟住會係乜。

現在既我，相信同呢個舊老板一樣，捐錢，我佰好小心。