problem and soluation

in dark night we see stars; in sunny day we see shadow.

when there is despair there is hope.

happiness comes with sadness.

problem and solution come together, this is now the nature works.

in Chinese Taoism:

無極生太極

太極生兩儀

兩儀是一齊來的，一齊存在，並無先後

if you only see problem, i can tell, you just miss the already there solution

解決問題

做咗咁多年人發現：

1. 錢係可以解決好多問題，但無錢唔代表唔可以解決問題。

2. 要解決問題最緊要係創意。

3. 有錢人通常都係無創意。

時間係可以治療一切

常言道，時間係可以治療一切。
服務腦退化病患者的我深深地體會這個道理。
而事實上，那個人不是有腦退化呢？不同的只是程度而已。

活在自我空間

Assistive Device

Assistive Device 最大的功用就是使用者（傷殘人士）back to normal。透過工具使修殘人士如正常人般生活。若你想過正常人生活就使用工具啦，好似眼鏡，助聽器，輪椅等等。

重點係 back to normal。normal 既定義係一般人既 normal，即一般人或社會大眾既標準。

我以前講過一個三手外星人既故事（忘了的話請搵舊 post）。主線都係講 disable，但方向係講 how we set the standard, how we set the environment and what is "normal"?

同是講 disable 但方向就絕不相同。我自己覺得很有思考空間。

奇妙的生命

簡單來說
動物吸取氧氣呼出二氧化碳，植物吸取二氧化碳呼出氧氣。
動物吃植物排糞便成長，植物吸收動物糞便而成長。
簡單而言
每一刻，生物（包括所有生物，動物，植物等等）不停把化學原素轉化。假定全地球有100個氧氣原子，100個碳原子。生物們不停把這些氧原子及碳原子轉化（O2 to CO2 to O2）。但氧及碳原子的數量並沒有增加或減少，除非天外飛來殞石才可增加原素數目，例如外太空飛來一粒水殞石，那麼地球就多了氧及氫原素，因為水是H2O。

生命就是那麼神奇，在沒有增加或消耗地球的一點原素而孕育了這麼多不同的生命。

大媽經濟學

很早前，聽過一個說法。在未來中國經濟模式將會取締西方經濟模式。 

當時，我是摸不著頭腦，甚麼西方經濟模式？甚麼中國經濟模式？

在我腦中，經濟就只一條數，賺最多的錢。有錢搵就去，無錢搵就縮。 

近來聽過大媽投資策略，我就開始明白一二。 

買股票，當然睇公司實力，未來計劃，潛力，風險等等。對於優質股，價低入價高放，即賺大錢。 

大媽呢？當然睇大媽喜歡不喜歡你。喜歡你，入你一億半億比你發展。要多一些？搵班鄉里夾幾百至千零多億比你發展。就算你間公司幾豬，有了幾百至千億比你發展，在市場上突然一鳴驚人，總會有出名的時候，到時人人追捧，唔發到幾難。 

大媽睇關係，用錢玩死你，真係做到不被錢牽住走。這種睇關係睇心情的經濟模式，西方人真是不知如果對應。 最近，香港金市，股市不就是比大媽們死？要你邊一隻升，它不能不升。大媽放手的話，你不能不死。 

嘿！

Happy Mothers' Day

A: send you a meaningful message

B: OK

A:

My Wife DOES NOT WORK !!! 

Conversation between a Husband (H) and a Psychologist (P): 

🔸P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy? 

🔹H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank. 

🔸P : Your Wife ? 

🔹H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only. 

🔸P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning? 

🔹H : My Wife, because she doesn't work. 

🔸P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast? 

🔹H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast. 

🔸P : How do your kids go to school? 

🔹H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work. 

🔸P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do? 

🔹H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work. 

🔸P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
🔹H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works. 

🔸P : What does your wife do then? 

🔹H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed. 

💯✔ Whom do you think works more, from the story above??? 

🔱 The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!! 

🎋 Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important! 

💝 Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles. 

🎏All about a WOMAN ...... 

💛 When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind. 

💙 When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted. 

💜 When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock. 

💚 Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted... 

↪ Forward to every woman to make her smile and to every man to make him realize a woman's worth......!!! 

❤💚💜💙💛💖 A heart touching message...... by a woman......" 

Some one asked her...... Are you a working woman or a housewife ?? 

She replied : Yes I am a full time working housewife. I work 24 hours a day..... 

I'm a "mum", 

I'm a wife, 

I'm a daughter, 

I'm a daughter-in-law..... 

I'm an Alarm clock, 

I'm a Cook, 

I'm a Maid, 

I'm a Teacher, 

I'm a waiter, 

I'm a nanny, 

I'm a nurse, 

I'm a handyman, 

I'm a Security officer, 

I'm a Counsellor, 

I'm a comforter, 

I don't get holidays, 

I don't get sick leave, 

I don't get day off...... 

I work through day and night..... 

I'm on call...... 

all hours and get paid with a sentence..... "what do you do all day" 

★ [ DON'T FORGET TO SHARE ] 👏👏👏👏👏 

Dedicated to all women😘😊 

👌🍃Woman has the most unique character like salt Her presence is never remembered but Her absence makes all the things tasteless !!

🐾👍 Pass it to all the lovely ladies..... Happy Mother's Day ! Thank you! 

B: But not fully apply to my situation 😜

A: It doesn't fully apply to any of us. But it acknowledges the hard work of a wife and mother. So when you also work on top of this role, you deserve a bigger applaud!

B: Yes, you are right. What if
When the husband do all the driving
When the husband do laundry
When the husband vacuums the floor
When the husband do gardening
When the husband wakes his wife up
When the husband prepares his own breakfast
When the husband shops foods together
When the husband pays all the bills
When the husband drives to the family doctor no matter who get sick
I think you have to give "the husband" extra applaud. 😜

 A: I know... It's Mother's Day ah ma!

B: I have no problem of mother's day but just have concern on wife's day.

B: I want to share a story too

A: What is it?

B: 我出世時我老媽子無問過我。
我上邊一間幼稚園我老媽子無問過我。
我上邊一間小學中學我老媽子無問過我。
大學她不懂，但就不停叫我做醫生或者律師。

我小時候參加的課外活動我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候我所有衣着我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候絕大部分我用既物品我老媽子無問過我。
我小時候去街的目的地我老媽子無問過我。
......

大咗？
大咗我老媽子想盡辦法干涉我。
真係用盡所有方法包括非法手段，用金錢同情感方法去控制我。
....

結果我離開了這個家，
老媽子還是想我住近她一點。美其名照顧我飲食，實質係人肉監示。
結婚後要管的更加多，包括我老婆同的下一代。
 .....

結論呢？
結論係：我愛你老媽子

 A: :|

Believe

It is meaningless or waste of time to discuss about belief (with other people).

You can listen or neglect but not discuss.

BTW, do you know how much we talk in a day is base on belief but not fact? I think I have to learn to shut up !

Learn from a Palliative Presentation

1. there is no such thing as : too old is a reason to die. it is not a good comforting speaking for people with a dying loved one. We die because our body/organ no longer can support us for survival.

2. a private funeral or without funeral is stopping people who is not the family member to mourn their grievance. When someone died, not only the family feel lost, but also friends, colleague, or someone who knows; we never know there will be someone very important to the deceased one exist.

3. grievance is something relate to loss. It is not only applied in loss of life, it also applied on every losses. For people with dementia, they are also feeling grief because of losing memory, self-image, identity, reasoning, speech and etc.