生命就像編織一樣,用自己的手,一針一針的編織出自己的歷史。 Life is like knitting, we knit our history pin by pin.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
平衡
在很多篇文章中都提及平衡這一個概念,我相信平衡是我人生中的一個重要的信念。我很不喜歡破壞平衡,因此我不喜歡過激的意念和行動。
相對於極端,平衡是很難確定。事件的極端是很容易看到和理解。是與非,成與敗,生與死等。但甚麼是平衡。
用太極去演繹平衡亦不失一個好方法。太極其中一個要的信息是。
你不是你,我不是我,而是你中有我,我中有你。顧及自己亦顧及他人。兩極互相包容才是共存之道。
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
外星人做乜唔同地球人講野?
好多人都話有外星人,有些人甚至話見過飛碟及外星人。
假如真係有外星人,為乜佢地唔同地球人溝通呢?
照常理,比著你坐火箭去左第二個星球見到有生物,你好自然都去同仍地溝通下至係。
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Happiness
Recently I read a book about Happiness, I want to jot down some of the thinking about happiness from other people.
1. Life is full of happiness and unhappiness.
2. Positive and hope can give you energy to face the future but not sadness.
3. Don't focus on one thing to generate happiness for you. Try to invest into many things to obtain your happiness.
4. Keep yourself business will reduce unhappiness as you are being occupied.
5. Unhappiness can be prevented, when you foresee one, prevent it happened which will prolong your happiness.
6. Don't compare people with other people, particular yourself.
7. Happiness can be obtained in mother nature, try to find it.
8. 春有百花秋有月。夏有涼風冬有雪。若無閒事掛心頭。便是人間好時節。
9. You can always find a person who is more miserable than you.
10. Never give up in seeking for happiness, there is always in somewhere.
11. People who are miserable still living resolutely, can you find one?
12. Happiness needed to be seek for but not wait for.
13. Happiness is very easy to find, e.g. have a good meal, good sleep, good TV program.
14. Enjoy your hobby can bring you a lot happiness. Do you have one or some?
15. Admire can bring you happiness, do you have the capability to admire people, the world, and you?
16. Unhappiness is made by you, if you don't respect other, how can other respect to you?
17. No one has the duty to make you happy.
18. Contribution is a source of happiness.
19. Calm and peace is a source of happiness.
20. Find out your source of happiness, e.g. family, friend, and you won't fear of running out of happiness.
21. When you are free, you are happy.
22. Enjoy the rights to make your choice.
23. People will bring you unhappiness, but it is you to bring yourself happiness.
24. Your past experience can help you to cope with current happiness. What is your coping skills? Do you have an effective one?
25. Don't let other people to control your happiness and unhappiness.
26. Don't exaggerate any unhappiness.
27. One unhappiness doesn't mean all things are failed.
28. When you lost something, find out what you have obtain from the lost.
29. Let go the late people and hug the present one.
30. You lost something because you had gained.
31. You gain something and it will be lost.
32. We can predict everything, the answer is either fail or success. What you cannot predict is the process.
33. Enjoy the process instead of waiting for the result. There is no excitment at the end.
34. Thing will fail at last, so don't wait for the happiness in the end.
35. When you have tried your best, nothing should be regretted.
36. When you fail, you just only back to zero, nothing can lose more than zero. But you gain a lot during the whole process.
37. 當下
38. Happiness is looking into the future.
39. There is no such a person who did 100% wrong.
40. There is no such a person who only have 100% unhappiness, what you don't do is dig out the happiness.
41. In related in human issue, there is no 100% right or wrong.
42. Step into the other shoe and you will know the reason behind other people.
43. Happiness = feel good = find the balance how you balance your life.
44. Set a plan to create your happiness.
45. Change your plan in according to your ability and the enviornment.
46. Don't try to obtain happiness from your weakness.
47. 凡事不可強求
48. Is there a must for happiness in an event.
49. When in happy time, you have to be happy, when in unhappy time, you have to be unhappy. Don't hid your happiness and unhappiness or covered it by other issue, other people.
50. Be true to yourself.
51. Accept yourself as a human being, accept yourself will make mistake.
52. Happy is the result of an action but not wait for.
53. Do you know you have a choice of happy and unhappy.
54. You do anything with a reason behind and the other people may not know your reason and may reprimand you. Do you have to feel unhappy in this situation?
55. In this world, there is so many perspectives, how can we match or follow everyone perspectives? Just follow yours.
56. Help yourself when you are unhappy. Don't stay.
57. When you are unhappy, leave the unhappy enviornment and people and do something happy.
58. Let go the unhappy source and you will obtain happiness.
59. During the process of seeking happiness, you may obtain unhappy.
60. When the God gives you unhappiness, he wants you to work hard on happiness.
61. There are a lot of happiness around you, go to pick some.
62. Mental retard people, they can be happy. Blind and Deaf people they can be happy. Healthy people they can be unhappy.
63. Disable people can obtain Olympic award, healthy people can ruined his life.
64. Happiness come from bring happiness to others.
65. You cannot change other people perspectives, but yours.
66. Write down your happiness, recall it, share it and feel it.
Monday, July 07, 2008
Sunday, July 06, 2008
恐怖言論
物競天擇,適者生存。這個自然的道理,相信連現今的小孩童都明白。
在自然界中,老弱傷殘都會自然地被淘汰。就如生下來傷殘,特別弱小的小動物如羊,最後都會被獅子,老虎吃掉。容易得手嘛。
或是在羊與羊的競爭中被淘汰,如找不到草吃,喝不到水。自然地在競爭中死去。
對於被吃的小羊,當然不是一件快樂的事。但對於羊群而言,這樣的自然淘汰會使活存者都是優秀的一群。自然,他們的後代都會承受著優良的遺傳,羊群便踏著進化的步伐。
但若羊群中弱少老病的沒有自然地被淘汰,這將會增加羊群生存的壓力。若健康的羊還要照顧牠們,就會增加整體羊群的付擔。若老弱修殘要有下一代,對進化的步伐有著很大的挑戰。
能夠挑戰羊群進化的步伐,相信只有一個愛字。
族群對單一的愛而接受族群要面對的可見困境。然而,單一又應如何去表現對族群的愛呢?
這樣沒完沒了的拉鋸,都不知如何才停下來。
在腦裡,由這個問題引起很多要思考的問題,最直接的就是:個體與群體的關係。個人主義與集體主義等。自利利他的問題。運用高科技高醫療去延長壽命。應花費多少照顧老弱修殘。何謂無用之人。權利與義務等問題。
在此要收筆,因為要多動點腦力去思考,或是狂思考中發覺自己是阻手阻腳的一個,要被淘汰的一個。
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